Men’s Behaviour Change Program
A program developed to help men change their behaviours, challenge old ways of thinking, and take responsibility for their actions.
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The Men’s Behaviour Change Program supports men who have used, or are at risk of using, violence, coercion, or controlling behaviour towards their partners and/or children. It provides practical tools and guidance to challenge harmful thinking patterns, take responsibility for choices, and develop non-violent, respectful ways of relating to others.
Who is this for?
This program is for men who:
- Are struggling with anger or frustration in their relationships.
- Have hurt, or fear they may hurt, their family emotionally or physically.
- Bottle things up until they escalate.
- Feel anxious, confused, or that they are losing self-control.
- Are concerned about their behaviour toward their partner or children.
The program offers an opportunity to build healthier relationships, learn non-abusive behaviours, and develop a caring respect for yourself and others.
What can I expect?
Before the program starts, you’ll have two 90 minute phone calls with a practitioner to assess your readiness and suitability for the program.
This program is delivered through a mix of one-on-one and group sessions.
- One-on-one sessions are offered before and after the group program. These sessions prepare you for attending the group and support you with practical ways to continue building healthier relationships.
- The group sessions are led by qualified and experienced facilitators in a non-judgmental space. Groups are designed to allow you to participate and engage actively in discussion. Groups are generally held in the evening and delivered face-to-face in our CBD or Wyndham offices. We also deliver an online group but there is limited availability. Eligibility for online groups is assessed by our practitioners during intake.
How can we help?
The Men’s Behaviour Change Program includes:
- Understanding what violence and abuse are.
- Personal responses to anger.
- Accepting responsibility for behaviour.
- Strategies to support responsible behaviour.
- Power and control.
- The cycle of violence.
- Communication skills.
The safety of partners and children is a key part of our Men’s Behaviour Change Program. Our Family Safety Counsellors will support your partners and ex-partners while you are in the program. This can include counselling as well as practical help with things like housing and financial matters.
How to book
Call Relationship Matters on on the number below. Please note: online booking is not available.
Program fees
A $50 intake fee applies. (This fee includes the two intake sessions)
Your place in the program is not confirmed until both intake sessions have been completed.
Upon acceptance into the program, additional program fees apply:
- $380 full fee
- $280 concession
- 10% discount if you pay the program fee upfront
A direct debit payment plan can be arranged once you are accepted into the program. A deposit must be paid to be eligible for this option. Please speak with our team during intake to discuss your individual circumstances.
Frequently asked questions
The program includes both group and 1:1 sessions. The group sessions are held weekly for 20 weeks.
The program explores a variety of topics that include understanding what violence and abuse is, personal responses to anger, accepting responsibility for behaviour, strategies to support responsible behaviour, power and control, cycle of violence, and communication skills.
- 1:1 sessions can be attended online or by phone.
- Group sessions are generally only offered face to face in either the Melbourne or Wyndham offices
- Group participation online is subject to eligibility.
Participants who attend all sessions and have fully paid for the program will receive a Letter of Attendance.